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Remarried? Here’s What Your Kids Need: Ron Deal and Rod & Rachel Faulkner Brown

FamilyLife Today®

FamilyLife Network

Society & Culture, Religion & Spirituality, Personal Journals, Kids & Family, Christianity

4.81.7K Ratings

🗓️ 9 August 2024

⏱️ 28 minutes

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Summary

What's it like for a child when their parent remarries? Explore the unique losses and needs of children in blended families in this important conversation with Ron Deal and Rod and Rachel Faulkner Brown.

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0:00.0

You can try to talk to both little parts of their heart, something like, you know what, if I were you, I get it. I can see how calling me dad just feels weird. And if you need a break from that that's okay so you give

0:14.8

permission to that child needing to use a different term and then you try to

0:19.7

talk to the other half of the heart and say but I want you to know that I love you like crazy and

0:25.7

this doesn't affect our relationship. Welcome to Family Life Today, where we want to help you pursue the relationships that matter most.

0:39.0

I'm Shelby Abbott and your hosts are Dave and Ann Wilson.

0:42.0

You can find us at family life today.com.

0:44.9

This is family life today.

0:47.1

Okay, Dave, did you know this? I probably didn't. The blended family

0:58.6

ministry at Family Life teaches that no one in a step family has had more loss than the children.

1:06.2

Oh, that has to be true.

1:08.6

And I know Rondale says the problem is that often the adults, the parents and the step parent, are unaware of what the kids are going through.

1:17.5

I know my dad and my stepmom had no idea what I was going through.

1:21.5

So they missed the chance to help them you

1:25.0

know the kids with their grief and I get it too because the parents are going

1:28.3

through a lot of trauma anyway and you know who else doesn't get this is church

1:32.3

leaders oh yeah and that's one of the

1:34.8

reasons we put on the premier blended family ministry conference for church

1:39.2

leaders the summit on step family ministry is our annual event for church leaders and lay couples.

1:46.5

October 10th and 11th, 2024, it's going to be in Dallas this year.

1:50.9

We'd love for you, someone in your church to come and you can check

1:55.0

the show notes or go to summit on stepfamilies.com to learn more about it.

2:00.1

Okay so yesterday we started listening to this great conversation between Ron and

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