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Religion on the Mind

Religious Disorientation & Growth (#103)

Religion on the Mind

Religion on the Mind

Religion & Spirituality, Religion, Spirituality

4.7543 Ratings

🗓️ 8 February 2021

⏱️ 127 minutes

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** Please take my Varieties of Church Experience Survey, and share with friends and family (especially more conservative ones!): https://northwestupsych.az1.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_3r3jgp1f2oqDJNc **One of my most popular guests, Mark Karris (episode 45: "Toxic Christianity" & Its Damaging Claims), returns to talk about his book Religious Refugees. Specifically, we talk through the five symptoms of what he calls Religious Disorientation Growth Syndrome, as well as 5 possible ways forward toward re-orientation. Mark's book: https://www.amazon.com/Religious-Refugees-Constructing-Spiritual-Emotional/dp/1938480554/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1612811313&sr=1-15 Symptoms of Religious Disorientation Growth Syndrome: 1. Doubting or denying one’s religious beliefs that were once held as true.2. Subtle or intense anxiety about a person’s relationship with God. 3. Increase of painful emotions, such as anger, loneliness, shame, guilt, sadness, and despair. 4. Isolation (community is massive for healing, meaning-making, and growth after trauma) and criticism (feared or realized) from members within their own family and/or religious community. 5. Existential angst concerning a person’s identity and future selfThe 5 Stations of Healing we spoke about:1. Becoming aware of and using one’s emotions2. An “unholy huddle” — the importance of a community3. Listen and be mindful of our emotions and therefore our selves4. Values5. Open and Relational theologyMark's YouTube video about why people are leaving the church: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pGIrnQMXkkM&t=1sMarkGregoryKarris.comMark’s previous YHP episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/you-have-permission/id1448000113?i=1000457113992Join the Patreon for those resources Mark promised! patreon.com/dankochFollow Dan on IG: https://www.instagram.com/dancoke/Or Twitter: https://twitter.com/DanKochFaith deconstruction resources: soyouredeconstructing.comEdited by Josh Gilbert (joshgilbertmedia@gmail.com -- he is accepting more work!)Join the Patreon for exclusive episodes (and more) every month: patreon.com/dankochEmail about the "sliding scale" for the Patreon: youhavepermissionpodcast@gmail.comYHP Patron-only FB group: https://tinyurl.com/ycvbbf98Website: youhavepermissionpod.comJoin Dan's email list: dankochwords.comArtwork by http://sprungle.co/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:45.1

My name is Dan Koch.

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Like many of you, I've been on a complicated faith journey for a number of years now.

0:54.0

And while I tend to find myself on the progressive side of Christianity, my goal is not to make

0:59.4

liberal converts.

1:01.2

I want this show to be a resource for Christians to my right and to my left, as well as

1:06.2

former Christians and non-religious folks, anyone who finds themselves asking difficult questions about God,

1:14.2

science, prayer, fate, suffering, evangelism, and more. So many of us have been given bad answers

1:22.7

to those good questions, often by people with pure intentions. I want to say that you have permission

1:29.6

to take both Christianity and the modern world very seriously. And I hope to facilitate that

1:36.4

by introducing you to people seeking God across the Christian spectrum, engaging hard questions

1:42.6

in a multitude of ways.

1:45.2

Thanks for listening.

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