So we talked about the bad spirit, I want to talk about the good spirit, I want to talk

about the things that you can do to make your relationship better.

And the first one is to own your relationship.

If you want to stop contaminating your relationship, then start contributing to your relationship.

What was it that made your partner fall in love with you?

It's Dr. Phil, you found your way to fill into blanks.

And we're in the middle of our series, Relationship Reality Check.

Subtitled, How Much Fun Are You To Live With?

How Much Fun Are You To Live With?

You know, we've been talking about what not to do in a relationship.

We've been talking about myths, blowing those things up, we've been talking about your bad spirit.

Those things that will contaminate a relationship and drag it down.

And you heard me say, Relationships or Ships? And Ships go down.

But now it's time to start talking about what to do.

Of course, you're not about what not to do.

But anybody can say what not to do, anybody can criticize, anybody can find fault.

But what do you do? How do you make your relationship sing?

I'm going to answer that question and put a lot of verbs in my sentences starting in 40 seconds.

As we've talked about doing a reality check on your relationship,

one of the key things I've said is that you either contribute to or contaminate your relationship.

There is no neutrality.

And I hope what you've done rather than just listen to me ramble on here,

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