Welcome to the Mathias Day Barker Podcast everybody. My name is Mathias and I'm a psychotherapist here in Spokane, Washington and this is a podcast about psychology and mental health and what makes life meaningful.

Big announcement, we got approved on Apple Podcast.

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So today we're talking about relationships. I'm pretty excited about that. We're talking

about romance and infatuation and conflict. It's pretty timely. Also, my wife and

nine's anniversary was yesterday,

and we celebrated eight years, pretty exciting.

We did a Q&A on Instagram,

just about conflict and relationships

and answered a bunch of questions there,

so this is a timely episode.

It's good.

I was talking to my wife this morning

about just kind of what I plan on talking about today.

And I was telling her I was going to bust two relationship myths and she asked me what those

myths were and I was telling her about them and she contributed a lot. We had a really great

conversation and the first myth that we were talking

about was just you know that we we get into this mode where we believe that we

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