Relationship Expert: “Onlyfans Is DESTROYING Modern Dating!”, Why He Is Cheating! And “Trying Open Relationships, Means You CANT Trust Again”?! - Sadia Khan

We Need To Talk with Paul C. Brunson

FlightStory

Leisure, Relationships, Society & Culture

4.8 • 652 Ratings

🗓️ 24 September 2024

⏱️ 86 minutes

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We Need To Talk: In this thought-provoking episode, relationship expert and coach Sadia Khan openly shares her own perspectives on modern dating, masculinity, and the evolving nature of intimate relationships. Paul and Sadia dive deep into the impact of the sexual revolution, which Sadia believes has led to a decline in masculinity among men and an enhancement of masculinity in women. They also examine how adult media platforms like Only Fans are eroding intimacy, while fuelling infidelity in modern relationships. Sadia shares her beliefs on the importance of being a 'high-value man’ and offers her perspective on whether non-monogamous relationships can truly work within the structures of marriage. By the end of this conversation, listeners can expect to gain a deeper understanding of the struggles in modern dating, the challenges young men face, and the reasons why many modern relationships are failing, all while exploring the conflict between traditional values and today’s evolving dating culture. Learn more about Sadia’s work here: https://g2ul0.app.link/SadiaKhan — 00:00 - Introduction 01:59 - The First Time You Felt Love 03:07 - Are You A Feminist Or Misogynist? Discover Your True Self 03:37 - Sadia's Journey Through Love And Relationships 05:18 - Why Infidelity Is A Major Fear In Relationships 08:37 - How The Sexual Revolution Transformed Modern Dating 11:10 - Defining Masculinity: What It Means Today 13:06 - Do Men Really Only Want Sex? 14:50 - Exploring Paul's Love Life And Intimacy 18:47 - How Feedback Can Strengthen A Marriage 21:19 - The Dangers Of Pornography On Relationships 23:36 - Are There Any Benefits To Watching Porn? 26:09 - Are Polyamorous Relationships Destroying Dating Norms? 27:20 - Is Marriage The Right Choice For Everyone? 32:42 - Is OnlyFans Changing The Face Of Modern Dating? 36:52 - Perspectives On OnlyFans: Empowerment Or Exploitation? 43:54 - What Is The Narcissistic Movement? A Deep Dive 45:11 - How Ethnicity Affects Your Dating Preferences 46:17 - Are Women Becoming More Narcissistic? 48:06 - Does Racial Preference In Dating Make You Racist? 49:59 - Colonialism's Impact On Modern Dating Preferences 50:49 - The Two Types Of Men According To Sadia 53:11 - Dating Advice For Single Men Looking For Love 55:12 - The Biggest Red Flags Men Should Avoid 58:12 - What Makes A Woman Truly Attractive? 01:03:01 - How Wellbeing Influences Partner Choices 01:07:26 - Why Men React Negatively To Attractive Women 01:07:53 - How Jealousy Affects Self-Worth In Relationships 01:10:12 - How Sadia Handles Negative Comments Online 01:12:01 - Paul's Biggest Takeaways From The Conversation — Tinder: https://tinder.com/en-GB Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Today's guest is Sadia Khan. She is trained in psychotherapy, advanced cognitive behavioral
0:06.2	therapy, and psychoanalysis. She's dedicated her career to helping both individuals and couples
0:12.7	around the world navigate the complexities of modern relationships. In today's conversation,
0:18.8	we unpack the struggles of modern dating and take a deep dive into the
0:23.4	challenges that people face when it comes to holding healthy relationships. We explore the evolving
0:29.6	nature of relationships and speak about the direct impact the sexual revolution has had on masculinity.
0:36.9	We discuss the challenges of modern dating,
0:40.2	the effects pornography can have on relationships,
0:42.9	and the rise of adult media platforms such as only fans.
0:47.8	I hope this episode brings you as much insight as I got from the conversation.
0:53.1	Don't forget to stay around until the end where I'll
0:55.8	give you my top five takeaways. Before we get into it, I want to ask you for a small favor. We want to
1:02.2	make sure these impactful conversations get to as many people as possible. By subscribing to this
1:07.2	channel, you help these conversations reach the people they need to. In return, if you're
1:12.1	part of the first 20,000 subscribers, we're going to pick 10 of you to come down here to the We Need
1:17.9	Talk Studio to meet me, the guests, and let us know who you'd like to see on the show. Thank you.
1:25.3	I want to talk about you.
1:33.4	My least favorite topic. Why is it your least favorite topic? I'm so uncomfortable with me talking about me personally, only because I feel like everything I say is kind of overly
1:38.7	analyzed by like people on the internet and everything. So I almost feel a bit anxious about it.
1:43.4	And I've always
1:44.2	been quite good at keeping my personal life very, very personal. But I think it's getting to the
1:47.9	point where people are very much interested in stuff. So I would love to kind of open up a bit.
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