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Hey there, folks. It is Sunday, August 17th, here alongside my dear Roboc.

We all know, Robs. There are how many love languages?

Five.

That wasn't a trick question.

I know. I was trying to decide whether it was four or five but

i think it's five there are five until now we have discovered a sixth love language could it be

the missing piece in your relationship welcome Welcome everybody to this very special edition

of Amy and TJ, special because we're doing something we've never done before because

Robs is sitting here having zero idea, the topic of this podcast episode. Yes, you asked me,

hey, would you trust me if I came up with a episode that you knew nothing about,

that I researched, that I led, and you just are along for the ride. And I said, you know what, sign me up.

And here we are now on this journey, because this is something you've talked to me about plenty over the years.

And I think absolutely millions of people have used this before

and I think a lot of people would say this has helped them, this idea of there being love languages,

five love languages. I think this goes back decades, but they've sold millions of books,

but this idea that we need to Robs understand how to communicate via love.

I need to understand how you like to be loved and you have to understand how I had to be loved.

Yes, and I think in prior relationships I have absolutely blurted out,

you don't know how to love me.

And it's been frustrating because I think we all know what we need and what we want,

and we then tried to apply that to our partners thinking,

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