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Mufti Menk

Rejecting a woman because she doesn't earn enough

Mufti Menk

Muslim Central

Society & Culture, Religion & Spirituality, Islam

4.82.7K Ratings

🗓️ 11 February 2021

⏱️ 4 minutes

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0:00.0

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0:04.3

Assalamu alaikum. This one is going to be very interesting.

0:07.8

So I delivered a short talk about how we should not reject a proposal that comes for our child

0:14.1

from a guy, from a person, from a boy or a man, who perhaps might not be so wealthy

0:20.5

and maybe he might not be earning so much.

0:23.2

But if he's responsible and he has deen and a khlak,

0:26.8

he has a good level of connection with Allah and he has a good character and conduct

0:32.4

and the two, the boy and the girl, wanted to happen, let it happen.

0:36.1

I received an email from a sister telling me,

0:38.7

you've been unfair to single sisters who are rejected simply because they don't have jobs.

0:46.4

It took me a moment to understand it, but that was so correct.

0:49.1

There are people who reject a girl who is being looked at for marriage purposes

0:55.3

when her deen is good, her character is good, she comes from a decent family

0:59.2

simply because she doesn't have a degree or she doesn't earn that much

1:04.1

because they want the earnings or they want a 50-50 set up

1:08.9

or they want some form of material gain from this particular sister.

1:14.0

What does Islam say about that?

1:16.0

Well, you're totally wrong. You're actually making a wrong decision.

1:18.8

You're pegging it on something wrong, Subhanallah.

1:21.7

And I do know that life is a struggle in many countries

1:24.3

but that doesn't mean you reject a brilliant person simply because,

1:28.9

oh, what amount of money are they going to bring into this home?

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