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The Next Big Idea

Regrets: Daniel Pink Has a Few (And So Should You)

The Next Big Idea

Next Big Idea Club

Education, Social Sciences, Science, Society & Culture

4.41.3K Ratings

🗓️ 31 March 2022

⏱️ 65 minutes

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Summary

“Embedded in songs, emblazoned on skin, and embraced by sages, the anti-regret philosophy is so self-evidently true that it’s more often asserted than argued.” So writes Daniel Pink in his new book, “The Power of Regret: How Looking Backward Moves Us Forward.” There’s just one problem, he adds. The “no regrets” philosophy? It’s hogwash. Regrets may churn our stomachs, but they also improve our decisions and strengthen our values. They’re a photographic negative of the good life. Download the Next Big Idea app at www.nextbigideaclub.com/app

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0:00.0

LinkedIn presents this idea that we should be

0:07.3

resolutely positive that we shouldn't look backward that regret is something to be avoided

0:11.7

is wrong. It is wrong. I don't know if it's morally wrong but it's wrong as a matter of science

0:19.8

and it's a completely useless blueprint for living. I'm Rufus Griskem and this is the next big idea.

0:26.7

Today, can looking back move you forward.

0:53.8

Paris, October 1960.

0:56.7

A young songwriter named Charles Dumont stands at the front door of an imposing apartment building

1:01.6

in the city's 16th arrondissement. Beside him, his professional partner, Michelle,

1:08.2

before him, an opportunity. One Charles desperately needs a chance to play one of his songs for the

1:15.0

most famous singer in France. If he's lucky, she'll like it. Like it so much that he'll make some

1:21.2

money. Enough money that he can finally get some furniture for his apartment.

1:26.0

Nervously, he rings the bell. The door opens. Charles and Michelle are

1:31.4

ushered into one of the apartments and immediately given bad news. Their appointment has been cancelled.

1:37.2

The woman they're here to see doesn't want to see them. They turn to go but then a woman's

1:42.9

voice rings out from down the hall. It's more of a growl really since you've come all this way

1:47.3

she says, you may as well stay. So Charles and Michelle go into the living room to wait and wait

1:54.6

and wait some more. Finally, an hour later, into the room strides a woman, the woman, a blue dressing

2:01.2

gown wrapped around her gaunt frame. It's Edith Piaf. She's 44 years old and one of the most famous

2:07.5

singers in the world. She's also one of the sickest, her body ravaged by addiction and hard living.

2:13.3

Just three months earlier, she'd been in a coma. She looks at the two men and tells them

2:17.9

she'll hear one song, just one. Charles, who has a wife and two kids at home,

2:24.3

that he can barely afford to feed, will quite literally have to sing for his supper.

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