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A Gay and A NonGay

Regional Gays & Lavender Marriages

A Gay and A NonGay

W!ZARD Studios

Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Comedy, Mental Health

4.3632 Ratings

🗓️ 20 August 2025

⏱️ 31 minutes

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Summary

We're here for another Summer episode of A Gay And A NonGay. With James at Edinburgh Fringe, we're focusing on the really big questions in life... So, after we debate killing a fly or not, James & Dan are talking about regional gays (who even are they?!), why lavender marriages are making a comeback and the bizarre rules around who gets financial support in relationships. James questions why we don’t just marry our friends, while Dan admits he’d rather be “unstable” than marry a bloke for tax breaks. Plus, the debate gets heated! Maybe attractive people do have it better after all... Follow A Gay & A NonGay TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@gaynongay⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@gaynongay⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@gaynongay⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@gaynongay⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠gaynongay.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Email Us: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:34.2

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0:39.0

That sounded important.

0:41.1

Because if we don't act, nah, we've lost him.

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0:57.8

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1:05.7

Hello, welcome to a gay and not gay.

1:07.9

We've just had a major fallout.

1:10.5

Yes, this is a gay and non-gay. I'm James Barr, I'm gay, he's Dan Hudson, he's non gay. Yes. A fly just came into the studio. Yeah. Um, I didn't actually see it at any point. You haven't seen the fly at all? No. Is that just because flies follow you all the time anyway? Well, as I've explained to James, numerous times over the years, if you see a fly or a bee or a wasp, just ignore it. No. But why? Well, I ignored it. But what happened is. And what happened? So just to recap, because you weren't here, because the audio wasn't recording. Dom, who works at the studio, came in. I screamed about a fly whilst I thought we were recording. Dom storms in to save me. Right. Dan's like, just ignore it.

1:45.7

But I want... came in. I screamed about fly whilst I thought we were recording. Dom storms in to save me.

1:51.3

Right. Dan's like, just ignore it. But I want my straight men to look after me like Dom did.

1:55.7

Yeah. But that's what that's the energy you should be bringing. Not, oh, just ignore it. It'll go away.

2:17.5

Well, because also that's not true. Well, I'm, I'm not, I'm not pandering to the, to the approach that I don't believe in. What do you mean? You, so you genuinely believe a fly, if, if you ignore it, will leave. Yeah. Of course I believe. Where? We're in a, we're in a room with four walls. It's going to fly away somewhere else. We're in a room. Right. And this particular... With four walls.

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