If there was any advice that you would give to a mother that's just entering a situation

like that for the first time, what would be some pointers or some advice that you would

give her?

I would say even though your child is in a situation to be there for them as much as

you can, because it's not an easy task.

It's financially, it's a lot.

Physically, it's a lot of traveling, emotionally, it's a lot, but be there if you can.

If there's a group or someone that you can talk to that can relate, that person is open,

you're like laying on that person, because when you're going through it and it's your

first time, you don't know, you don't know where to go, you may not know what to do legally,

you may not have the means financially to hire a lawyer.

It's just a lot.

What do you think, like, what do you think like now that how many years has it been so

far?

It's been 10 years this year.

What would you have done different now that you have lived through this experience?

Is there anything that you think you would have done different or handled different?

Not with him, but handling the situation.

I don't know that I would have done anything different and handling the situation outcome,

but I think I did.

Still, I'm doing all that I can.

I don't think that I would have done anything differently, but I am going to encourage

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