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Carol, welcome to the program.

Hi, thank you for taking my call.

Thank you.

I'm a little bit nervous because I've just started listening to you about six months ago,

and I've done everything wrong.

Oh, brand.

Well, I shouldn't say everything, but a lot of things wrong.

I was married for 24 years. We grew apart,

paid more attention to our children than our marriage, and ultimately he cheated on me,

and then we divorced. I was very vulnerable and didn't feel loved, and I met someone else and less than a year remarried.

And how long have you been married to this one?

Five years. And I told your screener that he told me a year after, well, it was right after we got married, that he had an STD.

And which one did he have?

I honestly was kind of in shock and just have not addressed it since then, and I don't know.

I'm sure I need to go to the doctor and get it checked.

But he said that whenever he was...

Are you freaking kidding me?

He told you he had an SDD and you didn't immediately go to your gynecologist, your internist.

Are you nuts?

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