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Welcome back to another episode of Courtside with Courtney.

I say this at the beginning of every episode.

I feel like every single episode I come in, I sit down in my chair, I have my water, and I just tell you guys how excited I am.

But it's because I am so excited.

Today is a solo episode, but I want to talk about something that I have been thinking about a lot lately, talking to all my best girlfriends

about, talking to Liz about. I've been thinking about just redefining dating and redefining

dating with intention specifically because I feel like dating with intention has this

super serious connotation around it where it means like you're dating and you're looking for

your husband on the first date. And I feel like it's kind of fucked up. And I feel like it's very

pressure filled and it sort of sucks the fun out of dating at the end of the day

we're at a place where I think dating has become a chore for a lot of people or it feels really

overwhelming and daunting or nerve-wrecking when really it should just be fun. So I'm petitioning to

bring the fun back to dating and lighten things up a little bit because I just think the

pressure doesn't actually garner the results that most of us are probably looking for, right?

So let's talk about redefining dating with intention. As I've been evaluating my own dating

life, was it been four years since I've been divorced? I've been thinking about how I've ebbed and flowed

as far as like what I've been looking for. I think I've had seasons where I've thought to myself,

like honestly, marriage does not sound like the most exciting idea to me. Like it's all past. No thank you.

Because the idea of being with someone forever is a really long time like the

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