My girlfriend of four years just told me that she's pregnant. I'm a woman, so it can't be mine.

But she swears she didn't cheat. What do I do? I'm still in shock, so bear with me.

My life feels like a soap opera right now. Apologies, this will probably be long.

Here's some background. My girlfriend Anna and I have been together for four years,

with intentions of getting engaged sometime this year. To clarify, we are two women in a relationship.

I am a lesbian, I always have been, but Anna is bisexual and has had serious relationships with men in the past.

This has never been an issue for us because we love each other and we have a healthy and stable relationship.

But now, as you can imagine, I'm second guessing everything.

So what went down?

In the last month, Anna had been complaining about putting on weight, particularly in her stomach area.

Anna is thin and athletic, so the little belly she developed is noticeable.

She's been going to the gym more and started eating much healthier than she usually does.

We didn't notice any improvements with her weight loss though.

But I told her it takes time. She'll eventually lose the weight.

Pregnancy never ever crossed my mind for obvious reasons. Last week she really started freaking out

about her weight gain so she scheduled a doctor's appointment. She had the appointment yesterday afternoon

and afterwards she called me at work and told me that we needed to talk. I could tell she'd been

crying. I'm freaking out at this point now, thinking that she's terminally ill or something.

I start tearing up, asking her to just tell me what's wrong, but she insists on meeting at home.

I leave work immediately and I get home to see her sitting on the couch, her face puffy from crying.

I'm shaking and tears are streaming down my face. I ask her about the doctor's

appointment and what is going on? She can barely get the words out through her sobs. She tells me

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