I do not understand this kind of entitlement at all. Lack of basic self-preservation.

My daughter is 32 and has a living boyfriend who is 34. He's also the father of our grandchild,

of whom we have custody. Now her boyfriend has a level of entitlement. I frankly cannot understand.

I'm just left with my mouth gaping open at his attitude.

He moved to our stay over five years ago, following our daughter after he was evicted from his

family's home for being a deadbeat. Both his mother and aunt have kicked him out and will

not allow him to return. His mother kept his dog and kicked her son out. That's funny to me. Since his arrival,

he's not held a regular job for more than a week. His most recent example was him working for a

grocery store in the deli. He quit after a week when they passed them over for an assistant

manager's spots. A week. He started many jobs in the past five years and quit nearly immediately

after they offend him in some way, which usually is a trumped-up reason based on some slight offence,

mostly not treating him like the royalty he thinks he is. Another example. A friend of a friend

got him a job on a construction site. He just had to arrive with safety boots and he'd be guaranteed to have a job holding a sign that said slow, stop on it.

Just stand there and hold the sign.

He missed the start date.

However, he lucked out as the FOAF involved was sick that first day and they rescheduled a start for the following week.

Boyfriend didn't show no job for you.

He's done some door dash and similar gig work but will only do it if his girlfriend goes along

so she can do the jump out and get or drop the package part of the gig.

He just wants to drive. This means that he's only willing to

work when she isn't at work. This is now moot since their cars have been repossessed. My daughter

later lost her $25 per hour full-time job. Her fault, see the below note, and she's now cleaning

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