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Let's jump in to this week's message called Red Flag's Relationship Killers.

Ephesion 525. We're in part two of a series that we've called Love Actually.

God's plan for real love. And we've got to get a better working definition of what love, true love is. Because I can't draw from Disney or

Hollywood. I cannot draw from the movies what they think love is. I got to go to the author of

love to find out what real love actually looks like. Because when I was growing up, I thought love was the movie The Notebook.

I thought love was the movie Titanic with Leo. Mariah Carey lyrics. And the older I got,

the more I started to read God's word and understand his heart, I discovered what real love is.

If we don't get a real love from a real God working definition, a lot of our marriages are going to end sour. They're going to end poorly.

And I want to tell you, there ain't nothing, any married people here remember your wedding day.

Let me just see your hand if you remember your

wedding day oh i remember my wedding day julia was looking fine oh shoot paid my ties hallelujah

and i remember you know my wedding day holding hands with Julia, our dad did the ceremony.

I didn't hear a word they said.

You know what I'm saying?

I just looking at her like, please say yes, please say yes, please say yes.

And you know, my belief is nobody ever gets married and looks across and thinks, I can't wait

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