My name is Brandon Kyle Goodman. I'm a black gay non-binary author, TV writer, actor, and I'm messy. But not in the way you think.

messy as in I'm human and flawed. I'm on a mission to destroy shame around sex and

the only way to do that is to talk about sex.

So that's what we'll do on my brand new podcast, Tell Me Something Messy.

Join me on Tell Me Something Messy with brand new episodes every Thursday on the I Heart

Radio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you listen to podcast.

Welcome to Cabbley Reckless, the production of Our Heart Radio and the Black Effect. radio and just like that we're back with yet another carefully reckless episode

It's your girl Jess Salarice and I got my best friend in the studio with me today.

Y'all know her Sheenaena, that mic is not on.

All right, well, cut on one that I can talk into.

Okay, so she's here being a hoe, as y'all can hear, she always got a problem with me.

Um, so we're going,'m going to ask out a way in on some of these people mess as well because I'm not going to say sometimes I've been needing help but I am you definitely need help first of all okay well some I can always use a second perspective how about that I don't need help but I can use the second perspective so yeah here we. Now this is a story that came from

somebody who wrote it. We were not sent in a voice memo and like I said

y'all that is the easiest way to get your story played. Okay? If you, to get your story out there, you can send me a voice memo and I know that voice memos only record up to a minute on social media, please I don't give a fuck Senate please because

a lot of y'all be typing these long-a-run-old sentences and I cannot differentiate

punctuations I can't do it, all right?

So please send your voice note.

All right, I'm about to read.

Hey, so I could fuck this man life up.

Damn, hold up, this, okay, oh shit.

Hey, so I can fuck this man's life up, but I know outing someone is wrong, but let me tell you

what is going on.

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