Recently Single Behavior, Missing an Ex, and How to Flirt
Seeing Other People
Ilana Dunn
4.5 • 608 Ratings
🗓️ 14 February 2023
⏱️ 75 minutes
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Summary
Erica Shea (previously on the episode “Do You Really Find Love When You Least Expect It?” is back to update us on what happened with the guy she met…when she least expected it. We hear why it didn’t work out, how things ended, how her healing process has been, and what she’s learned from the breakup. We chat about RSB, AKA “Recent Single Behavior,” and if Erica still believes you find love when you least expect it, even after getting her heart broken. We answer listener questions about reaching back out to exes, how to flirt, making the first move, and more.
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| 0:00.0 | This podcast is brought to you by Podcast Nation. |
| 0:07.9 | Hey guys, it's Lana and welcome back for another episode of seeing other people. |
| 0:13.5 | Look, I debated pretending Valentine's Day wasn't a thing and just doing an episode and not |
| 0:20.6 | acknowledging it in the intro because I know |
| 0:23.1 | that as a single person, Valentine's Day is just the most in your face thing in the world. |
| 0:30.4 | And I wanted you guys to be able to come and listen to this episode today and have a distraction |
| 0:36.0 | and not have to think about being single on Valentine's Day. |
| 0:40.2 | And I kind of did that. In the episode, we do do that. We don't talk about Valentine's Day. |
| 0:45.5 | This is really an episode about being single and getting through something and it's fun and it's real and it's |
| 0:54.0 | genuine and it's not about Valentine's Day. |
| 0:56.5 | But just want to give some pointers for surviving a Valentine's Day single because I think it's |
| 1:03.6 | really important. You know, for me, most of the Valentine's Days in my life, I was single and |
| 1:08.8 | it was a really difficult thing for me to get |
| 1:11.0 | through. It was just a reminder of my relationship status and the fact that, you know, I didn't |
| 1:16.7 | have somebody to love or someone to love me. And there are a few things that I did over the years |
| 1:22.6 | that I thought were really, really helpful in surviving Valentine's Day. So and obviously keep in mind if Valentine's Day doesn't bother you or if you love Valentine's |
| 1:31.2 | day single, fuck yeah, power to you. |
| 1:33.7 | I love that. |
| 1:34.3 | But for I imagine the large majority of those of you who struggle today, here is Valentine's Day |
| 1:40.4 | survival guide tip one. |
| 1:42.6 | Don't make dinner plans. |
| 1:46.9 | Like you can absolutely hang out with your other single friends or, you know, even friends and relationships who their partner might be |
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