Hey Jim Daley here. If you like the focus on the family broadcast and haven't

grown tired of this voice just yet, you'll love my ReFocus podcast. On ReFocus I

take a deeper dive with a respected thinker on different aspects of culture. I

ask those hard questions that maybe they don't get that often and I don't

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today. Thank you for downloading the focus on the family marriage podcast. You

can find more relationship insights at focusonthefamily.com slash marriage

podcast. Well you might be thinking that it would never get to this point in the

relationship. I mean the person you've loved that you committed to now you're

in a world of hurt and you don't know if it's even possible for your

relationship to make it. Well I'm John Fuller along with a couple of marriage

counselors who really do care Dr. Greg Smolley and his wife Aaron and I love how

honest the two of you are. I think you've shared before about times when you've

really had to invest in making the marriage work. Yes, especially around building

and rebuilding trust because boy that's something that can easily be taken away

based on the choices that we made. I remember one time very early in our

marriage. Aaron and I used to have a lot of conflict around money and just how

to spend money and and kind of for her she loved to talk about it. I just

wanted to say here's X amount for you. Here's X amount for me. I'm just gonna

spend it however I want. I want to talk about it. It's kind of a control deal.

Weird a weird control thing for me. But unfortunately the more that that we

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