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Rebroadcast: Aminatou Sow and Ann Friedman on How to Sustain ‘Big Friendship’

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4.2726 Ratings

🗓️ 7 September 2020

⏱️ 54 minutes

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Summary

A close friendship can be one of the most fulfilling, and most challenging, relationships of our lives. In their book “Big Friendship: How We Keep Each Other Close,” writers and longtime friends Aminatou Sow and Ann Friedman share their honest and humorous account of what it really takes to maintain a meaningful bond -- from moments of being totally in sync to painful disagreements and everything in between. We'll talk to Sow and Friedman about the lessons they've learned together and hear your stories of big friendships that transcend life phases. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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From KQED. From KQED. From KQED, public radio in San Francisco, I'm Mina Kim.

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Coming up on forum, a close friendship can be one of the most fulfilling and most challenging relationships of our lives.

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In their book, Big Friendship, How We Keep Each Other Close, writers and longtime friends Aminatousoe and Anne Friedman share what it really takes to maintain their meaningful bond, including how race plays out in their relationship

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and how going to therapy together helped save their friendship. And we want to hear from you.

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What have you learned from your big friendship, or even one that didn't make it? Join us after

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this news. This is Forum. I'm Mina Kim. I don't know too many people who go to therapy to revive a fading friendship,

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but that's what friends Aminatu So and Anne Friedman did.

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And the rarity of that step is part of the problem, they say.

2:24.2

A close and honest friendship that transcends life phases or emotional shifts requires work.

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And yet when there's tension or misunderstanding, it can be really hard to do the work to address it.

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