Reasons Guys Don’t Want to See You Again After the First Date

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🗓️ 22 June 2026

⏱️ 8 minutes

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0:26.6	Dr.ora.com. The topic of this morning is reasons guys don't want to see you again after the first date.
0:36.0	Now, this particular article that I read and got a kick out of, and I thought there were a lot of good things here, but I wanted to add things that weren't in the article, so I won't add, I'll start.
0:46.6	I want to start with, it wasn't a match.
0:50.2	Nobody was bad.
0:51.4	You aren't a loser.
0:52.4	You didn't do anything wrong, ladies.
0:56.8	It was just, it wasn't a match. You didn't do anything wrong, ladies. It was just, it was not a match. It didn't feel like a click.
1:05.8	Two, guy isn't really interested in anything more than checking you out to see if he can get some.
1:30.2	If you appear like the kind of girl who'll go home now and have sex, maybe there'll be a second date. So it sort of depends on what kind of a guy he is and what his intentions are. He may have gone out on the date and realized, you know, I'm not really ready for this. I just broke up with such and such and I'm still sad or I have all these problems and I'm just not with it. And she seems like such a nice girl and it just seems wrong to me to do this.
1:32.8	I mean, you see, it isn't all about you.
1:35.8	If a guy doesn't call you for a second date,
1:39.2	it doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you or that you did anything wrong.
1:42.3	So this article does not touch on that at all.
1:44.4	And I thought it was necessary to touch on it.
1:52.8	Okay. Now let's talk about some of the dumb stuff you do on a first date which could turn a guy off.
2:00.4	When every time a subject was brought up, you actually started to debate it.
2:09.2	Instead of just listening, asking questions, so you could learn more about the point of view,
2:13.7	you just started having a debate as though you were in Parliament.
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