Reality Check: Your Woman Shouldn't Be Stressing You Out (Bar from Wallie The Sensei)
Sports Motivation Podcast
Niyi Sobo
4.9 • 767 Ratings
🗓️ 12 May 2026
⏱️ 25 minutes
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Summary
ou say you want more.
More success. More discipline. More results.
But your life doesn't reflect it.
You're chasing goals… while entertaining relationships that drain your energy, distract your focus, and create unnecessary chaos.
But Women aren't the problem.
Your standards are.
Your leadership is.
Your willingness to tolerate misalignment is.
It is not normal, and it is not acceptable, to be in a relationship that brings confusion, stress, and instability into your life.
And if you are?
That's on you.
In this episode, I break down:
- Why most men sabotage their goals through poor relationship management
- The truth about leadership in dating and relationships
- How to properly vet and assess a woman before committing
- Why you must define roles, standards, and expectations early
- How to stay focused on your purpose without getting distracted
This is a wake-up call.
You don't need to avoid women.
You need to lead your life first, then lead your relationships.
CALL TO ACTION
If you're ready to raise your standards, take control, and build a life that actually reflects your goals…
Apply for coaching:
👉 imnotyou.com/coaching
This is for men who are done tolerating chaos, and ready to move with clarity, structure, and dominance.
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the sports motivation podcast. It's your host, Niyu Shobo. |
| 0:07.5 | I got a very important episode today that I'm going to break down and there's a bar that I'm going to use to illustrate this point. |
| 0:16.7 | But have you ever been in a situation where there was something that you were experiencing, |
| 0:22.3 | right? |
| 0:24.8 | It can even be something. |
| 0:26.0 | Let's say it's something with your body, right? |
| 0:27.8 | Let's say you have this grinding in your shoulder or this popping and grinding in your |
| 0:32.3 | shoulder. |
| 0:33.3 | And you think it's been happening for so long you think it's normal. |
| 0:38.1 | And you finally go to the doctor and then you show the doctor what's happening. |
| 0:42.0 | And you immediately are like, oh, man. |
| 0:44.0 | Right. |
| 0:45.8 | And the doctor with their response alone tells you that what you have been experiencing |
| 0:52.0 | and telling yourself as normal is not normal at all. |
| 0:57.5 | And unfortunately, this is what happens to a lot of us. |
| 1:01.8 | And if we're not careful, or if no one blesses us with a new standard, a new normal. |
| 1:09.2 | If no one ever takes us aside and say, you know what, you know that shit that you're dealing with right there, that's actually not normal. It a new normal. If no one ever takes aside and say, you know what, you know |
| 1:11.4 | that shit that you're dealing with right there, that's actually not normal. It's not normal at all. |
| 1:17.4 | Like some of us grew up in households where the parents were yelling at each other all the time. |
| 1:22.5 | You know, that's not normal. And unfortunately, it takes someone actually telling you that |
| 1:26.8 | before you realize that there's a new way that you can do things. |
| 1:32.2 | There's a new way that people can operate. |
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