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Welcome back to another episode of Uncut and Uncensored with Caroline Stambry.

Okay, so, and we've all been there, relationships, and what is real love versus love bombing and making grand gestures, and I used to live with all these gorgeous girls when I was younger and you know these men used to sort of go

out of their way to chase them and what's the difference by the way between love bombing and

actually the chase because I always used to say I don't understand if a guy is really interested he'll do

only anything to get you won't he but I never really had that so when I was younger

I suppose I was like I as I said I lived with all these models and one of my my roommates was actually few of my roommates were quite famous and they had all these gorgeous famous menus to come by our apartment and take out these girls and it would be like a revolving door of Hollywood A list actors I can't even tell you one of my roommates dated Orlando Bloom, another one dated, oh what's he called the guy from the Australian guy. God I'm terrible. You know, the Rolling Stones, I mean crazy. My house was crazy when I was growing up and you know I would see all these things go down and sort of guys flinging themselves at my roommates and now I look back and I wonder what was real and what was not.

You know, love bombing is, well there's that nursery rhyme isn't there? First comes love, then comes marriage, then comes

the golden carriage or something. Love bombing is when a guy sort of like does this whole,

I can't live without you in the first week and it never really felt right or real to me

when I'd witness this because I'm like how the fuck do you know and and they kind of like

send you love letters and gifts and every day you get home you get a bunch of flowers and it gets bigger and bigger every week and they kind of want to get married straight away and they want to like not trap you but give it a name right

give it a name straight away and I think back in my day to be honest we did a lot

less dating than is acceptable now we sort of if you'd been on three dates, I suppose you were boyfriend and

girlfriend, weren't you? I mean, because it's a lot more acceptable now to date multiple people and to take your time and really choose your partner.

West I think back then everybody just as I've always equated it to musical chairs

everybody wanted to grab the first one that you got and nail them down because, you know, getting married in your early 20s was the prize or getting married, full stop was the prize if you're pretty you know everybody

wanted to get married and just close the deal so you know it was harder in my generation to understand what love bombing was,

because everybody was in a rush to make things exclusive and get married,

whilst I think now with the way the world is

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