This is an I-Heart podcast.

Guaranteed Human.

It's I-Dupert 2, and it's your celebrity mentor, Kelly Benson.

I'm so excited to be joined by one of your favorite single gals and mine.

You know her and love her on the pod.

It's Louise.

Hi, Louise.

How are you?

Hi, Kelly.

It's good to be back with you.

Today we have so much to talk about. We're talking about

trends and dating and then we're going to talk about some relationship stuff and answer some

questions. Are you ready? I'm ready. Let's get into it. First of all, how's your relationship?

Wow. Well, I had to put it on pause because my own baggage always comes into play. So, yeah, so figuring it out.

What kind of baggage? You don't have no baggage. You're too pretty for baggage.

Well, maybe on the exterior. Thank you for saying that. No, just some of my avoidant attachment stuff comes into play and all that stuff. So I'm taking a pause

on that right now and trying to do some cleanup on it. But at least I'm recognizing it and I'm

recognizing my pattern. And it's not for lack of the most amazing guy I'd probably ever been dating.

So I have to figure this up. Can you just tell me a little bit about avoidant

attachment and kind of what that means to you? Because people use that a lot and I'm just,

I'm just interested to hear what you have to say about it. Yeah. So I think when you grow up and you

have some sort of like trauma wounds, you develop how you react to situations. And I think for me, when somebody wants too much of me, it feels like pressuring and suffocating.

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