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I'm Amanda Litman. I run an organization called Run for Something. I wrote a book called Run for

Something. And now I host this show, also called Run for Something. My mission is simple. Find

people who care about solving problems and help them run for office. Every Tuesday I'll talk

with amazing and incredible candidates and elected officials who are already making a difference.

They're in local offices that might seem small and not so sexy, but are actually hugely important

for your day-to-day life. Fixing our broken system will take all of us and people like you.

Listen in every Tuesday wherever you get your podcasts.

Hi, I'm Caroline Stambury and I am divorced not dead. I'm a former Bravo TV star and now

former wife. Fresh off the back of my divorce, I'm bringing real stories, real life, real talk on

all things that aren't said between each other, society, the sheets and everything in the middle.

And lucky me, you'll be joining me for the journey. So buckle up.

Welcome back to Divorce Not Dead. I've been getting a lot of questions and I think mostly

people are interested now of my last podcast was about, you know, he put a ring on it. So this

one I decided to call Ready or Not, capital letters not, because I think most of you want to know

about my feelings post-engagement and how I knew that Sergio was the next one or the right one,

how I told the children, how do you know it's the right time, how do you know you're ready,

so many questions from all of you. And I think that, you know, like everything in life, you know,

you just address these things as they come. Honestly, when I was on the mountain, I hadn't,

I wasn't expecting it. I mean, I think, you know, even Johan who was running the trip was like,

everybody knew except you, are you sure you didn't know? I'm like, no, I didn't know. If I'd bloody

known, I would have maybe had made the effort to have a shower the last six days or brush my hair

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