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Beautiful people, welcome to another episode of the Narcissus Code.

I am your favorite, mentally ill, Narcissus, Lee Hammock, aka Mr. Mental Hildness from TikTok

and Instagram or what not, if you don't follow me on there.

Today's episode is going to be about the phenomenon known as reactive abuse.

This is one of the main questions that I see on TikTok and on Instagram and one of the

main things that people want me to address.

So if you don't know what reactive abuse is, it's when a Narcissus pokes and prods that

you does everything to you, like picks on you, nags that you just to get you out of character

and then you react like how you react out of character yourself.

If you are a nice sweet, kind person, you end up in a screaming, raging monster toward

the Narcissus.

And a lot of times the Narcissus will sit there calm and you'll be screaming, crying, hitting

them, doing things like that while the Narcissus is sitting there calm, cool, collected,

something not smiling or smirking or something like that and sometimes recording you.

That's what reactive abuse is, pretty much just to get you out of character.

And from the, I guess the empath perspective or the perspective of the Narcissistic abuse

survivor, reactive abuse is a terrible thing, you know, you feeling that you out of character

reactive abuse will have you questioning who the actual Narcissus is in your relationship

because you'll see things about screaming, yelling, deflection and stuff like that and

you'll, you like, wait, that sounds like me, but it's not you, that's a result of the reactive

abuse because it causes confusion and like you out, you're out of characters like an

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