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North Point Community Church

Re-Assembly Required, Part 1: Instructions Not Included // Andy Stanley

North Point Community Church

North Point Community Church

Religion & Spirituality, Christianity

4.72K Ratings

🗓️ 24 October 2021

⏱️ 40 minutes

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Summary

When it comes to repairing relationships, no one responds well to being convinced, coerced, convicted or controlled. Yet we try those approaches over and over again.

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hey everybody, it's Andy, welcome back to the North Point Community Church podcast.

0:10.5

Hey, at the end of this episode, please take a moment to subscribe to our YouTube channel

0:15.6

and download our free North Point app where you can access all of our recent message content.

0:20.4

And actually, the app is the easiest way to share all this content with a friend

0:24.1

and it's the easiest way to keep up with everything going on around here at North Point.

0:27.5

But most importantly, I hope the following presentation inspires you to take your next step

0:32.9

in your faith journey. Enjoy.

0:40.5

So, 27, yeah, 27 years ago, I'm sitting in my dad's office at his church.

0:46.7

It's just my dad and it's two of us and a counselor again. And we're meeting with our counselor

0:54.1

every week trying to figure out how to fix our broken, damaged relationship.

1:01.7

And the strange thing is if you can kind of put yourself in our position for just a minute,

1:06.2

we'd spend our whole career telling people how to fix broken, damaged relationships.

1:11.1

And now we had one and we're the experts and we were stuck and we were angry and we were hurt.

1:19.1

And here's why, because he saw things his way and I saw things the right way.

1:27.8

And I could not understand for the life of me why we weren't making any progress, right?

1:33.6

I mean, it was this simple dad. If you will just see things my way, we'll be on our way, right?

1:40.8

Now, you laugh and the reason you laugh is because I know what you're thinking,

1:43.8

you're thinking, finally, someone understands me. Finally, someone understands the situation

1:48.6

in the circumstances I'm in as I try to navigate difficult relationships. If you think about your

1:53.4

current fractured relationship, a distant fractured relationship that's actually just been broken

1:59.1

for a long, long time, it could be recent, distant, it could be family work, a good friend,

2:03.6

and there's just been this weird thing. And now it's just awkward and you can tell you're drifting

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