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Disruptors

RANT! How To Handle Failure & Rejection Like A Boss [Business, mindset, entrepreneur, disruptors]

Disruptors

Rob Moore

Careers, How To, Business, Self-improvement, Society & Culture, Marketing, Investing, Education, Entrepreneurship

4.81.4K Ratings

🗓️ 30 December 2020

⏱️ 24 minutes

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Summary

Fear and rejection are something we all have to face in life and sometimes it is not easy to accept. In today’s podcast, Rob details how to handle failure and rejection effectively. Discover why facing your fears can allow you to grow as an entrepreneur, the importance of having a balanced outlook on life and how to contextualize your emotions. KEY TAKEAWAYS You have to face rejection, embarrassment and shame. As an entrepreneur you have to face your demons regularly otherwise you are not pushing yourself enough and you are not growing enough. There are certain parts of you where you will recurrently feel fear and rejection as this goes back to your conditioning.   It is easy to beat yourselves up about the things that are going wrong instead of the things that are going well. It is also common to have a downside view of things rather than a balanced or upside view.   You would not want to get rid of fear. Fear is your internal warning system and a reaction to your environment to stay safe. Fear is real and you need it. We need emotions, it is more about feeling and contextualising the emotions and reacting accordingly.   Contextualise what is real and what is imagined. Contextualise what is a ‘first world fear’ and what is real and threatening to you. Failure and mistakes keep you humble. Therefore it all serves a purpose if none of these emotions existed then we would all become complacent and arrogant.   Nobody is a failure. Everybody is perfect at being themselves. You can fail at things or be rejected on occasion but that does not make you a failure or a reject. Usually, people aren’t rejecting you; they are rejecting whatever you are offering, selling or promoting. It is not personal, if you do feel rejection it is probably more about your past rejection than your present or future rejection.   BEST MOMENTS “You can grow through it and learn from it.” “All emotions are necessary.” “Why can’t we disagree more and still not judge the person?”   [Business, mindset, entrepreneur, disruptors] VALUABLE RESOURCES https://robmoore.com/ bit.ly/Robsupporter   https://robmoore.com/podbooks  rob.team ABOUT THE HOST Rob Moore is an author of 9 business books, 5 UK bestsellers, holds 3 world records for public speaking, entrepreneur, property investor, and property educator. Author of the global bestseller “Life Leverage” Host of UK’s No.1 business podcast “Disruptors” “If you don't risk anything, you risk everything” CONTACT METHOD Rob’s official website: https://robmoore.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/robmooreprogressive/?ref=br_rs LinkedIn: https://uk.linkedin.com/in/robmoore1979 disruptive, disruptors, entreprenuer, business, social media, marketing, money, growth, scale, scale up, risk, property: http://www.robmoore.com

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0:00.0

Welcome to the disruptive entrepreneur podcast.

0:06.8

What does the word disruptive mean to you?

0:08.5

It means going beyond the ordinary, going beyond the status quo.

0:11.7

Not thinking in the conventional way, not just sort of following the herd.

0:15.6

Disruptive means taking things up, you know?

0:18.0

Disruptive entrepreneur is somebody who sees the problem and embraces the problem with a new way.

0:23.6

Shake up an awakening.

0:25.0

Quality will take care of itself and you'll go for being disruptive but also profitable.

0:29.2

When you use your reservoir of talent, when you love what you do then you disrupt mix it up change it up and

0:34.9

dominate and now your host eight times best-selling author and double world record

0:40.8

holder Rob Moore. Hi, this is Rob, take two on a video about failure.

0:46.0

Fuck the first one.

0:48.0

Yeah, facing failure, rejection, self-loathing, handling mistakes, embarrassment, criticism, all of that stuff.

0:59.2

Let's lob it all into one pot and let's talk about it because I think it's really important.

1:06.0

So I was talking to a friend who's having some troubling times at the moment she's got a big challenge

1:11.5

that she's got to deal with and it's going to be a beastly challenge and I've been helping her and she I guess she feels like I'm some kind of rock I guess she feels like I know all the answers and I've got my shit together and

1:24.8

what a great illusion that is. And I said to her, I said look I have to face rejection every day failure every day

1:36.6

shame every day I have to be humblised every day and in fact many times a day and I think I used to think as I got better

1:49.3

you know as I got more experienced as I got more respect as I got more experienced, as I got more respect, as I got more proof that what I've done is real,

1:57.8

that things would get easier, I would get more respect, I would get more results, They would come with less effort. I don't think that's the case. Now look I don't

2:09.0

know if someone who's you know a level way above me, finds business really easy and rejection really easy.

2:18.1

But I just found the bigger you got, the more successful you got, the more followers you got,

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