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We commence by praising Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala sending blessings and salutations upon Muhammad

Salallahu Alaihi Wasallam. He's entire household and all his companions. We ask Allah Subhanahu

wa Ta'ala to bless them all and we ask Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala to grant them every form of

goodness and to bless every single one of us and to grant us goodness and peace as well in

this dunya as well as in the next. Brothers and sisters yesterday we made many of

consultation and the fact that Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala has named an entire surah of the Quran

after this term consultation or the consultation and I'm sure we benefited from it for indeed it

is up to us to put into practice what we have learned from Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala. This evening

I'd like to start off by making mention of something very important that affects almost all of us.

With Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala it is his decision as to whether I will have children or not you will

have children or not and what type of children you have that is Allah's decision. Yes once we do

have the children the upbringing to a certain extent is in our hands beyond a certain point it goes

out of our hands like Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala has shown us that when your child is born the first

decisions that are made are 100 percent in your hands so what name to give the child the

parents hands what clothing to buy the parents hands where the child for example would go to school

it's your decision so all this the child has no role to play in it at all so if you were to make

these initial decisions correctly it will make it easier as the child grows up Allah says we take

away that decision making power from you and invest it into the child so if you buy a child a

little rattle it will take it and be happy and laugh and be excited but you know when the child

grows a little bit older it will refuse the toy and it will feel insulted with the toy that is not

upon the level that the child would perhaps consider acceptable this is common logic sometimes

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