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The Family Discipleship Podcast

Raising Emotionally Strong Children with David Thomas

The Family Discipleship Podcast

The Family Discipleship Podcast

Religion & Spirituality, Religion, Christianity, Parenting, Kids & Family

5.0597 Ratings

🗓️ 5 September 2022

⏱️ 38 minutes

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Summary

Adam Griffin, Cassie Bryant, and Chelsea Griffin are joined by David Thomas from Raising boys and Girls to discuss what it looks like to raise emotionally strong children in today’s culture.Questions Covered in This Episode:
  • For those who don’t know you, David, would you introduce yourself and tell us about you, your family, and your ministry?
  • What’s been your favorite episode of Season 4 of the Raising Boys and Girls Podcast?
  • Can you give us a little bit of the story of where this book came from? 
  • Can you tell us about the emotional health we see in Jesus? How can we all model that when our culture is going in the other direction?
  • In the book, you talk about what it might be like if we prioritized emotional health the way we prioritize youth sports or academics. What would it look like in our families if we were doing that? What would have to change?
  • Can you help us understand the three “R’s” that you talk about, “Recognize, Regulate, and Repair”?
  • When it comes to regulating, how do you know when to encourage which strategy? i.e. go work it out physically or go breathe.
  • One of my favorite lines in your book is “In life, we’ve been promised struggle, but we’ve also been guaranteed hope.” Please talk to us about that. What is the hope?
  • You talk about being on a mission to bring back journaling. How do you see that as an important part of dealing with our emotions?
  • If someone doesn’t journal and they want to start, how would you advise them to start?
  • What are the scriptures you lean on the most when you’re helping families think about raising kids that are emotionally strong?
  • At the conclusion of the book, you encourage the readers to stop asking kids “what do you want to do?” and to start asking “who do you want to be?” Can you help us understand what you mean by that?
  • If our listeners want to pray for you and your family, what can they ask God for on your behalf?
Guest Bio:David Thomas is the Director of Family Counseling at Daystar Counseling Ministries in Nashville, TN. He is the co-author of ten books, including the best-selling Wild Things: The Art of Nurturing Boys and Are My Kids on Track? The 12 Emotional, Social & Spiritual Milestones Your Child Needs to Reach as well as his two latest titles Raising Emotionally Strong Boys and Strong and Smart: A Boy’s Guide to Building Healthy Emotions. He is a frequent guest on national television and podcasts, including his own called Raising Boys and Girls, has been featured in publications like The Washington Post and USA Today, and speaks across the country. He and his wife, Connie, have a daughter, twin sons, and a yellow lab named Owen. You can follow him on social media @raisingboysandgirls and find the latest parenting resources at raisingboysandgirls.com.Helpful Definitions:
  • Recognize: Paying attention to the signs and signals my body is going to give me when I am having an emotional response.
  • Regulate: Employing healthy coping skills to help me get from stress to settled.
  • Repair: Taking ownership and doing any needed relational work.
  • Blame: Discharged pain.
  • Shame: Self-contempt.
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0:00.0

You're listening to the Family Discipleship podcast, a podcast of training the church.

0:14.4

And you all, I can still remember where I was standing in that room as they were scanning my wife's belly,

0:20.5

and the technician looked up

0:21.6

with this huge smile and said, I see two heads. And I remember thinking, then why are you

0:29.2

smiling if the baby has two heads? Like if I don't connect myself strongly to that, that I have a lot of need, I don't have a need for a big savior.

0:45.3

My kids can't get to the good stuff of hope.

0:48.4

They can't build character unless they first stopped off at the suffering, the struggle that builds perseverance that

0:55.5

gives way to character that then anchors them to hope.

1:03.4

This is Adam Griffin, and I'm joined as usual by our resident expert emotional experiencer, my co-hosts,

1:09.9

Mrs. Cassie Bryant. How you do today, Cassie? Well, I do experience a lot of emotions. And today, I would say, I'm doing exuberant. Let's stick with the ease. You're doing exuberant. That sounds great. Exuberantly. I'm doing exuberantly. I'm doing exuberantly. I'm not great at language. I'm good at emotions. Yeah, great at emotions.

1:28.1

It actually makes me feel very anxious when I'm put on the spot on a microphone. And, of course, the woman who's raising my boys, my wife, Mrs. Chelsea Griffin. Chelsea, how you doing? On top of the world, you know? Like usual. Just the usual. Yeah. Yeah. Well, what a privilege. What a distinct honor. what a treat to have on today's episode,

1:45.1

the King of Counselors,

1:46.3

an authoritative author,

1:48.1

a pro-turb of... Well, what a privilege, what a distinct honor, what a treat to have on today's episode,

1:45.1

the King of Counselors, an authoritative authoritative author, a proficient parent, a licensed master

1:50.6

social worker, and a phenomenal podcaster, Mr. David Thomas, ladies and gentlemen, David Thomas

1:55.9

on the episode. David, how are you doing today? I am so grateful to be with you all. And I can tell you just don't have any fun being together. That's obvious. It's best if we're really digitally together, you know? As I say, they don't allow us in the same room. So we have to, and we even had to leave churches. We're in separate churches because we were having too much fun at the same church. Just too much in one space. Chelsea and I actually stayed at the same church. Yeah, we feel like

2:20.8

it's better for our marriage. That's true. And you're in the same room often. It's the three of us. Well, David, I read your book a couple weeks ago. And let me just tell you, there was, first I was a little offended because I assume that most of it was based on very close proximity to my family.

2:34.5

It was so incredibly accurate that I could only most of it was based on very close proximity to my family.

2:34.5

It was so incredibly accurate that I could only assume that you could write it by having seen

2:38.5

the struggles that we go through as parents. So thank you, but you didn't have my permission.

2:44.1

But it was at the same time. Gosh, David, so, so good. Chelsea and I were reading through some of my

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