Raise Your Self-Worth.

Jillian on Love

QCODE Media

Mental Health, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Relationships, Society & Culture

4.9 • 1.2K Ratings

🗓️ 14 July 2025

⏱️ 39 minutes

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Summary

You don’t have to fully love yourself to be in a relationship—but if you don’t value yourself at all, it will show up in how you love and who you choose. In this episode, Jillian explores how self-worth shapes our romantic lives, why shame keeps us stuck, and what it actually takes to build a healthier relationship with yourself. She shares three powerful, no-BS practices to help you start showing up with more self-acceptance, compassion, and confidence—starting today. Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman Record and submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://askjillian.com/ Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at [email protected] Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0	Hi there, it's Jillian, and I want to tell you about Jillian on Love Plus, your way to get even more
0:06.3	Jillian on love each week by subscribing on Apple Podcasts or Patreon. You can access exclusive
0:12.8	bonus episodes with extras, including ad-free listening, answers to your most burning questions,
0:20.0	advice on all things dating and relationships,
0:22.4	and much more. Check out the link in the episode description for more information.
0:33.4	Do you have to love yourself in order to be in a healthy relationship? Do you have to love yourself in order to be in a healthy relationship?
0:40.3	Do you have to love yourself in order to be able to love someone else?
0:45.3	Do you have to love yourself in order for someone else to love you?
0:51.3	That's very extreme. It's a very extreme perspective to say unless you totally love yourself
0:59.5	then you can't be in a relationship that's healthy or no one can love you or you're not
1:05.2	capable of loving anyone else and and i believe that the inability to see one's value, the inability to love ourselves at all is probably up there in the top two.
1:26.0	Maybe it's number one reason why we have so many problems in
1:31.6	relationships, specifically romantic relationships. So while it is extreme to say, and I don't
1:41.5	believe that it's true, that you can only be in a relationship if you
1:44.4	completely love yourself. I mean, that doesn't make any sense because stepping into our
1:51.9	worth, owning our worth, seeing our total value, really loving ourselves in many ways as a lifelong
1:59.5	journey.
2:07.9	But we live right now and have been actually for many, many years.
2:13.3	We live in a culture where self-hatred is really prevalent,
2:17.1	not being able to see your own value really prevalent. And what makes it really sneaky is that you can have a lot of confidence in one area of your life.
2:25.7	One could have confidence at work.
2:29.5	Someone can have healthy or high self-esteem in one area, a hobby, work, friendships. But then in other areas,
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