racist sister-in-law tells me making food at a Chinese restaurant doesn't count as being a chef.

Here's what happened.

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For context, I've been married to my wife for around 10 years and we're a mixed race couple.

I'm Asian and she's Caucasian.

I've gotten along with her family, my mother-in-law, brother-in-law and sister-in-law.

But I always felt like her father-in-law and other sister-in-law, Sarah, never liked me.

I'm a professionally trained chef with 15 plus years of experience and I work at a high-end Chinese

restaurant, a spin-off of a popular one in Beijing in a large US city.

My crew and I have won several awards and I've been explicitly told I'll be the next

executive chef.

Sarah is also a professionally trained chef and works at a popular upscale French restaurant in the city.

She constantly brags about it and no joke compares herself out loud to Ramsey and

Burdane.

Whenever I'm at my mother-in-law and father-in-law's house and helping out in the kitchen,

Sarah is always criticizing everything I do, whether it's chopping, braising, marinating,

whatever.

She always butts in with comments like, um, I think you should actually do X like this.

I've been patient for my wife and sidestepping these comments, saying things like,

thanks, but I think I'll stick to the way I do it.

Things came to a head two weeks ago, when my wife,

father-in-law, mother-in-law, and I were in her parents' kitchen prepping for dinner for my mother-in-law and I were in her parents kitchen prepping for dinner for my mother-in-law's

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