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Today's subreddit is R-Slash relationship advice, where OP gets in trouble by getting a tattoo on

her butt. I'm a 20 year old female, and my 22 year old boyfriend assumed that I was in the

rough intercourse because of my race, and now I feel unsure about us. My boyfriend and I were

gonna passionately hug each other. It was gonna be my first time, but not his. Things started off

normal with kissing. Then he started pushing me on the bed and holding me down, no four-player

anything. I was obviously shocked and scared because I didn't expect that. I was screaming stop

and no, and he stopped. He looked confused and asked what was wrong. I told him like WTF, I thought

we were gonna go slow. He was still giving me confused looks, and at that point I was annoyed.

I reminded him that this was my first time, so I would prefer to take things slowly. He says he

knows that, but he thought that I'd like it rough. He also told me that he's never been with a

black girl before, and he thought black girls like it rough. I was mad and said no, I'm not okay

with it rough, and I was mad that he used a stereotype on me. I didn't want to do it anymore,

and I asked if he could just leave me alone so he left. I'm just so confused, like I was just

even real. I've never even heard of that as a stereotype. I don't know if it's like an adult

video thing or something. I don't watch those videos. I'm just not into them. But even if that

is a thing, I'm mad that he just assumed things about me. He knows that it was my first time,

but he was still rough with me. I'm unsure now because I don't know what else stereotypes he has

about me because I'm black. Well OP, I'd like to consider myself a connoisseur of adult videos,

and to my knowledge, no, that's not a stereotype. Even outside of adult videos and just like normal

world stuff, I've never heard of that stereotype, so I don't know what OP is talking about.

Major, major red flags coming from your boyfriend, but can we just stop for a second and give a

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