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Our next reddit post comes from our slash relationship advice. I admittedly have not been the

greatest father. I drowned myself in work throughout my children's childhoods, and I wasn't always

present, though I did try to be as much as I could. My wife and I have been married for over 30

years, and we have two kids, a 30-year-old son and a 29-year-old daughter. We were high school

sweethearts, and we have an incredible marriage. She's the love of my life. She's been a state-home

mom for most of our marriage. Our son lives at home with us, while our daughter, on the other hand,

is estranged from us, and has lived away from us ever since she became an adult. My daughter and

wife have always butted heads like animals. It was extremely difficult being between them trying

to mend things. They just could not get along. My daughter has accused my wife of physical,

emotional, and verbal abuse pretty much as long as we can remember. We even attended family

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