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Our next reddit post comes from our slash relationship advice. I'm a 25 year old woman, and my boyfriend,

who's 25, says really mean things to me in his sleep. I need to preface this by saying that when

my boyfriend is awake, he's wonderful, and I couldn't be happier. We laugh and joke all day,

and spending time with him in general is truly a joy. Yes, I mean this. No, he doesn't upset me at

all when he's awake. Also, for some background, he works night shifts at a job that he really hates.

So, when he comes home, he just likes to relax, unwind, usually with a whiskier beer. Typically,

we cuddle, or I massage his legs and backs until he's drunk enough to fall asleep. And OPP

clarifies, he's not an alcoholic, he doesn't need alcohol to fall asleep, he just likes to take a

drink, which helps him fall asleep. I have insomnia, so I usually end up staying awake for a while

after he falls asleep. I'm also really sensitive to aggressive tones of voice due to some past trauma.

He only really talks in his sleep if I move in the bed too quickly. He usually snaps at me saying,

quit effing moving, or can you please effing stop or owe my effing god. Just things in general that

give off an indication that he's really annoyed with me. There's also been a couple of unprompted

times when he stirred or rolled over and said things like, I can do better than this, etc.

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