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Our next reddit post comes from r-slash am I the bad guy? The title is,

will I be the bad guy if I tell my ex-husband my concerns about his girlfriend?

My ex-husband and I are in our early 40s and late 30s and have been divorced for almost

3 years now. While my ex-husband didn't want to get divorced, we separated, and we've been co-parenting

our two preteens amicably. He lives within 5 blocks of our old home, and while we have 50-50 custody,

our kids freely bounce between our places and choose how they want to spend holidays.

We've tried hard to create a sense of stability despite the change in our family situation,

and have standing tune up therapy twice a year to make sure that we're all comfortable with the

arrangements. His recent partner, Maria, who's 29, has been the only girlfriend to make it past

a 6 month mark. And prior to this encounter, I would say that she makes my ex-husband happy,

and is a pretty reasonable lady. She has a very sweet and percotious son, who's 9, whom we all

adore, and generally, I thought things were going well. I invited Maria to bring her son to my

place if she would like to join my kids in private language classes. She accepted, and this has been

going on for a few weeks now. My kids adore him. Last week, she said something to me that was

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