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to go on a vacation this summer to his mom's friend house in Hawaii with me and his two best friends,

a 25 year old guy and a 29 year old girl. We've been planning this all spring, and at some point

his 25 year old guy friend dropped out of the trip, leaving just the three of us. For context,

my boyfriend and I have been going out since November, and it's been serious. We've been talking

about moving in together, and he said, and I agree, that this is a long term situation and that

we're in it for good. In early June, once the 25 year old guy friend unexpectedly dropped out of

the trip, the 29 year old female friend called my boyfriend and told him that now that it was just

the three of us, she didn't feel comfortable with me going on the trip, since she didn't know me

that well, and she didn't want me to be a third wheel. She said that if I were to go, then she wouldn't

go on the trip. Without telling me that this was happening, they changed the plans and made it a

trip with just a two of them, and they changed a location to a beach in Costa Rica. I was trying to

figure out when to ask for time off this summer, and I hadn't heard news about the plans, so I asked

my boyfriend which we can August I should set aside for the Hawaii trip. He let me know that,

actually, he had talked to his friend, and she didn't want to go if I was going. So he was going

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