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where this woman can't decide if she's in the right or the wrong

for refusing to bleach her hair for her friend's wedding.

Am I the jerk for refusing to bleach my hair for a wedding?

So, I have a weird problem.

And after I told my boyfriend, he told me this sub would be the perfect place to get some help.

So I, a 25-year-old woman, this sub would be the perfect place to get some help.

So I, a 25-year-old woman,

are meant to be in the bridal party

of my friend Zoe's wedding in December 2024.

A couple of days ago, she met with me

and the rest of the bridal party to discuss what the plan was for hair, makeup, dresses, etc.

At first it seemed reasonable. She's going for a Winter Wonderland type of theme, so blue dresses, all in different shades lined up as a

gradients with silvery accents, snowflake jewellery and soft makeup. Even blue contacts for those

of us without blue eyes. Yeah, the last one's a bit weird, but it's

no big deal to me. I've won color contacts for Halloween. The bit that ended up

being an issue for me is that Zoe requested we all get our hair dyed. A couple of members of the bridal group are natural blonds with dyed ends and so is Zoe, but she wants to go platinum for the wedding. But the rest of us are two brunettes, a strawberry blonde, she wasn't blonde enough, and a redhead.

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