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Terms and conditions apply. Welcome to R-slash, Am I the Devil, where O-P tries to play victim

after sleeping with her sister's fiancee. Am I the but, where O.P. tries to play victim after sleeping with her sister's fiance.

Am I the butthole for causing a scene with my sister, who's 26, who stole my pregnancy announcement?

I'm a 34-year-old woman, and my sister, Lila, is 28. We're both children of a single mother.

Growing up, I was always closer to our mother, since we were

closer in age and had similar interests. I was also very quiet and well-behaved while my sister was

wild. We grew up in the sheltered suburbs, so her behavior wasn't nearly at the level of a lot of

kids generally, but it was a point of stress for my mom.

Many moons ago, my sister and my ex-boyfriend started a relationship. I was all right with it

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