Welcome to R-Slash, am I the butthole where OP finds out that her sister has been leaving

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started. Am I the butthole for slut-shaming my sister after I found a condom under my bed?

I'm a 23 year old woman and I'm sex repulsed asexual. However, if someone loves passionate hugging,

I'm never rude to them or think badly about them. If they have a healthy love life and they're happy,

I'm happy for them too. So on to the problem. My 26 year old sister came to visit me with her fiance

four days ago. They got engaged two weeks ago and I'm so so happy for them. My sister knows that I'm

asexual and how I feel about passionate hugging in general. I asked her as nicely as I could that

if they do anything sexual in my house that I don't want to see or hear anything and I would

prefer if they could wait until I leave the apartment. She agreed and I thought that was it.

However, the first night they were here, I woke up to a weird sound and it took me a moment to

realize what it was. They were passionately hugging in the next room very loudly. They didn't even close

their door. I just put on my headphones and listened to some music. Needless to say, I didn't

sleep well at all and it affected my school and job performance the next morning. There were

a few more incidents after that where they passionately hugged in the shower and then again at night.

The next morning, I asked her again as politely as I could if they could keep it down and wait

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