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expecting a baby when things went horribly wrong around 10 weeks into my pregnancy I suffered a miscarriage and then I returned home to find my husband and bid with my sister oh my god OP the two of them tried to apologize and convinced me that we could all get over it but I wanted nothing to do with either of them and even less so when I found out that she had gotten pregnant oh my god my divorce was finalized quickly

because I wanted nothing from him other than the divorce and I was willing to leave the marriage with nothing but the clothes on my back pretty early I realized that my parents were hoping that I would still want to be a part of the baby's life

but I wanted nothing to do with the baby that my sister can see while sleeping with my husband while I lay in the hospital losing my own pregnancy oh my god I refused any in all contact with my sister and X they married and had two more children after the one that she

conceived during my marriage to him I met my current husband when I had disanced myself from my whole family and he was amazing and his family was great we got married two years ago and his family is nothing short of the best I adore the nieces and nephews that I've

gained through my marriage to him and we spend lots of time together about three months ago my sister called me at work using my work phone number and told me that she needed me and could I please come to her

I hung up the phone and continued about my day several hours later I got a message from my parents saying that I needed to go be with my sister a few days later I got another call and I was told that my sister had been pregnant the baby passed away inside of her and she delivered a stillborn all while her husband was out sleeping with someone else

oh my god my parents and sister expected me to rally around her and I didn't now that some time has passed and my sister has moved in with our parents I've been inundated with messages from them saying that I should meet her kids that I should be there for them like I am for my

husband's nieces and nephews and that I should reconcile with my family my sister told me how sorry she was again and that she wanted us to make up I told the three of them that she and her kids are not my problem and that I

still want nothing to do with them my parents are furious and they say that I need to forgive her because whatever she did she's now suffering worse than would ever be deserved and her kids are innocent and

deserve an aunt okay a lot of people in the comments are saying the sister got what she deserved and I don't really want to say that because no one deserves to go through a

miscarriage that's something that I wouldn't wish on anyone however I will say what did she expect she married a guy who cheated on his pregnant wife and then oh my gosh my husband cheated on me while I'm pregnant how could I not have seen that

coming well I mean I could have seen it coming and like your sister and especially your parents had this really toxic attitude where even if you do forgive them just

because you forgive them doesn't mean that you're going to have a relationship with them what she did was completely bridge burning she didn't just burn the bridge between you she

utterly nuke it so whether or not you forgive your sister for what she did as a relevance if you don't want to have a relationship with your sister then you don't have to have a

relationship with your sister I'm giving your sister 4.5 out of 5 bottles I'm giving your ex husband the rare 5 out of 5 bottles that man if you can even call

him that is the scum of the earth I'm giving your parents 4 out of 5 bottles for their blatant favoritism am I the but

whole for refusing to give up my seats and being crashed about it I'm a 36 year old woman and I flew home for Thanksgiving this

week and got an early flight back I'm a plus sized woman so when I booked my flights I spent extra money and booked to a

Jason seats so whoever had the third seat in my row wouldn't have to be squished up in my business flying out was great the other person in my

row was cool and we shared the middle seat and snacks and played Pokemon on our switches and visit each other's animal crossing islands

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