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Am I the butthole where OP's brother tries to hit on his wife?

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started. Am I the butthole for calling my brother a disgusting, gross man at his daughter's birthday

party? My brother, Paul and I aren't close at all. We have very different world views and have

incompatible personalities. I can tolerate him, but I would never consider him a friend. He's been

married to Lisa for one or two years now, and they have a beautiful daughter together. My girlfriend,

Amy and I were invited to celebrate my niece's first birthday. Most of the family was invited,

and it would be the first time that I would have seen them all together in years. Amy and I arrived

a little bit earlier than we were supposed to, and instead of waiting in the car, we decided to go in.

The first thing I noticed was how calm my brother seemed to be, in contrast to Lisa, who was

frantically running up and down. When my brother saw Amy, he immediately handed the baby over to her,

and got a beer and sat down to watch TV. Lisa was clearly struggling, but Paul was content with

beer and Netflix. I don't want to be rude, and maybe this was a one time thing, but it bothered

me how uninvolved he was. He handed Amy a baby with a full diaper and vomit on its clothes.

Eventually, Amy, Lisa and I finished getting ready. The house was clean, the food was ready,

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