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Welcome to R-Slash, I'm I the Butthole, where OP's stepfather calls him another man's mistake.

I'm I the Butthole for telling my wife she can't have her dream job because I refuse to be burdened

with all of her student debt. My wife and I married young at 23 and now at 27, she's about to

graduate from law school. The issue is she has a ton of student debt, around $200,000 from both

undergrad and now law school. But over the past year, she's completely changed her mind about law

and becoming a lawyer. She now wants to teach and do teach for America after graduating.

She told me this past week. We've talked about this at length and she wants to do this because it's

her new dream job. Previously it was law. I'm upset because if she teaches, her starting salary will

barely clear $35,000 in the first few years and we live in a really, really expensive city.

She has no intention of going back into law later as well as she says law school was a mistake.

Last night we were talking about the future and she mentioned our plans to have kids in a few

years and how she'd like to be a stay at home mom in a few years as well. I looked at her and asked

how she thinks we're going to afford that when we've got nearly 200,000 in debt on my one income.

She got mad and said I'm trying to use her debt to postpone major life events like having kids.

We ended up fighting and I told her she can't just teach if she expects me to be saddled with

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