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Am I the butthole for holding a grudge against my dad who took my step siblings to Paris but not

me? A few weeks ago, I learned from my stepbrothers TikTok that my dad, stepmom, and two stepbrothers

are in Paris. I was staying with my mom at the time. I'm a 16 year old girl and I would have

loved to be there, but they didn't even tell me they were going. I immediately sent a text to my

dad asking if they were enjoying their time in Paris and despite him reading it, he didn't reply

until late that night. Then he tried to play dumb and said that it's great and he wished that I

could be there. Yeah, me too. So I replied that he could have taken me and he said that it wasn't

possible and we'll talk about it later. So when they returned, I told them that I was hurt that

they didn't take me. My dad took me aside and told me that their finances are very tight.

That this vacation was a gift from my stepmom's parents and they only bought it from my dad, their

daughter, and their own grandkids, not me. He reminded me that I shouldn't act in an entitled way.

They were effectively guests and I wasn't invited so I shouldn't act in an entitled way.

I wasn't convinced. They could have refused to go without me, paid for me themselves,

gone somewhere cheaper, stayed a little less longer or asked my mom to pitch in. And she would have

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