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Would I be the jerk if I opt out of thanksgiving with my parents because my brother and new wife

who left me out of their wedding will be there.

My brother and I are 8 years apart, I'm older.

Since he was about 12 I've lived in another state.

We aren't close, but we hang out a few times a year and it's easy and fun.

I recently moved to the same city as him and my parents, I envisioned us getting closer

but it never really happened.

He's the king of, I'll call you tomorrow with zero follow up.

It hurts my feelings but I've accepted it and take what I can get.

He got married this past September, I was told that there was no wedding party because

his wife's family is too big for her to make a choice and she didn't want to leave

people out.

I was given instructions to get a graze suit and that I'd be given a blue tie for pictures.

The day of the wedding I was hanging out in the men's dressing room and I saw that my

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