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high expectations for my Bachelor at party? I'm a 25 year old woman and I'm getting married to my

wonderful fiance who's 31 this fall. A week ago, I had my Bachelor at party. While most girls

dream of their weddings, I dreamt about my Bachelor at party. I put a lot of planning into this weekend,

made a lot of phone calls, reservations, everything basically. From Thursday night to Sunday morning,

me and 25 of my closest girlfriends ran into house. From the start, it was a disaster.

I told my girls to get to the house early on Thursday so they could decorate and set up before

I got there. Well, I got to the house at three and they weren't done decorating, so that bummed me

out because I wanted that wow moment when I came in and saw the setup. I felt robbed, but we still

had a decent first night. Friday, I woke everyone up at 7 a.m. to make breakfast and get ready because

we had a packed day. Vineyards, boat, lunch, happy hour drinks, then dinner and clubs.

I was getting shaded on all afternoon because people said they were being rushed from place to

place and had to carry changes of clothes all day, but we only had limited time in the city,

and I wanted to make the most of it. Saturday was worse. We had brunch at 9 a.m. and no one was

awake on time, so it only ended up being me and a few loyal bridesmaids. We went shopping afterwards

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