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Welcome to our slash am either butthole, where this dad wanders if he's in the right or wrong

for kissing his son.

I know that sounds strange but trust me there is a lot more to this story.

Here we go.

Am I the butthole for not treating my wife like an equal parent by telling her she has

no say in the way I bonded with my son and also calling her homophobic?

When I, a 37 year old man, was 17, I got my then girlfriend who was 16, pregnant with

twin boys.

Her parents didn't want the babies to ruin her future so they said that I had to either

take them or give them up for adoption because she was not raising them.

I wanted to give them up but my parents told me not to.

For the first 7 years of my boys' lives, I didn't act like a father and was more like

a big brother.

They knew I was their father but we never bonded like father and sons.

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