Welcome to R-slash, am I the butthole where OP gets her husband fired? Am I the butthole for having my husband fired?

I'm a 29 year old woman, and Richard, my ex, is a 34 year old guy. It's been three years since we separated,

due to him being abusive and cheating. But we're not divorced because divorce is expensive in my country,

and whenever I apply for divorce, Richard insists on mediation. So divorce wouldn't even be granted

because one of us is trying to save the marriage. He lives with his mistress, and they have a kid

together who was conceived when we were still together. Due to both of them harassing and abusing

me, I have a restraining order against both of them. My employer is aware of all of this,

because the utility company that my ex works for supplies the buildings that their offices are at.

His company is one of the major suppliers in the company. Now to the actual events. Due to

restrictions, everyone is currently working from home with a few days in the office. Richard

decided to show up at my work with his kid, and he demanded to see me for child support money

since we're still legally married. Since my employer is aware of the situation, the receptionist

refused to tell him if I was in the office or not. I was, and they asked Richard to leave.

Richard didn't leave, and security was called. Since he was with his kid, security couldn't

use force to remove Richard, so reception threatened to call the utility company that he works for.

Richard didn't believe that the receptionist would do it. So long story short, him and his

mistress were fired immediately. Because Richard showing up at my work was seen as gross misconduct,

and they discovered that Richard's mistress was his boss. Apparently, his employer didn't know

that they were together, and it's strictly forbidden to have a relationship with someone who's

directly employed by you. The utility company apologized for Richard's actions, and gave a

considerable discount for their services to make sure the news of what happened wouldn't spread.

Since they were fired, I've been getting calls from unknown numbers. From Richard,

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