Welcome to R. slash Am I the But Hole, where OP's wife is a fancy pants, Rich McGee over here.

Am I the But Hole for telling my wife's friends that I make more money than she does?

I'm a 25 year old guy guy and I'm married to my wife

Sasha who's 28. She comes from a pretty wealthy background while I decidedly

do not. My dad left before I was born and my mom died when I was 11. I've mostly gotten

over it as much as one can get over something like that. However, I'm still sensitive on any so-called jokes on that subject.

I graduated Sumacoom Laude and went straight into investment banking.

I met my wife when I was 23 and just starting my career, but after three years I earn pretty well.

My wife is a lawyer.

Now I love my wife and she loves me, obviously, but her family hates me.

Like from the depths of their soul hates me.

I've been called a gold digger, a low life,

and a few more vague insults on my table manners.

I went to a party with her the other day.

One of those fancy, schmancy things where everyone drinks champagne

and complains about this, that, and the other.

Talking about,

oh, we spend so much money on renovations.

Oh, ha, ha, ha, ha!

I got the usual mild comments from my wife's family and close friends

on where my wife picked me up from.

My wife's friend, Lacey, didn't know about my family's history before we met.

...