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Okay. stories, you cheeky, so-and-so's. And we're starting with one poetry 9190 titled,

I the asshole for not paying to change my father's gravely insulting gravestone.

My father and mother had a very bitter marriage towards the end of his life.

He had a long-running affair with another married co-worker and got her pregnant before he

passed. He was planning to leave mum, skip the country and moved to Canada to start a new life with

her. They had a house picked out and all. He had moved out and was living with his co-worker

when he suddenly died of a heart

attack while having sex. Divorced papers were never filed, no legal separation. They were in the

process of moving all things legal, but on paper, they were still happily married. Now me and my

siblings are already out of home. Our youngest sibling is 19 and is in college.

I work for a tech company and I'm currently back in my hometown helping my mum manage his estate.

Well, my mum was hurt and petty and marked his gravestone as in loving memory of John Doe, son, husband, father and adulterer. My dad's family and his pregnant partner are mad

and want me to fix it. I personally think it's fine. That's who he was. He was all of those things.

And since it's my mum's plot, I can't do anything. Am I the asshole? Well, from the last sentence

there, it doesn't sound like you can actually do anything anyway.

So it's automatically going to be a not the asshole because simply you can't do anything about it.

But I did have this scenario as I was reading this and I was thinking, imagine just walking for a cemetery and then you're browsing at the gravestones and you see this and you think

oh bloody out there's a story behind that isn't there but nature woman says i would die no pun intended

if i was walking through a cemetery and saw that your mom is an icon not the arsealt i hope she burns

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