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Welcome to R slash am I the butthole where Opie's wife is maybe in a cult with her therapist.

Am I the butthole for telling my wife to marry her effing therapist because I am effing done?

After our oldest was born, my wife decided to not return from maternity leave and be a stay-at-home mom.

Six months later, we started noticing missing milestones and other concerns.

We expressed our concerns to his pediatrician,

who said that milestones were just guidelines and not to worry. Around this time, my wife started to get

anxious and frustrated more and more. She said something was wrong with our son, and we needed to

help them. We went to a second pediatrician who gave us take-home evaluations to do.

They stressed out my wife, who said that she couldn't fill them out because she was afraid of accidentally answering wrong. I did my best to fill them out, but since she was a stay-at-home

parent, I needed her help on certain parts because some questions were phrased, how many times

per day does he such and such? And I needed information from her to

answer that. She got very frustrated during this process and said that I wasn't supporting her.

The pediatrician diagnosed our son as autistic when he was almost two. My wife was upset by this,

and the pediatrician recommended that she see a therapist. As parents of autistic children

sometimes struggle, especially the parent who spends the most time with the child. In some ways,

that's the last time I ever saw my wife. Her frustration and anxiety only got worse. She's a

completely different person now. She only communicates in therapy speak,

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